#LiveLikeAustin
Austin Silva left us too soon. He lived a full life. He was a teenager, but he became a man. He was studious, he loved tennis and Wranglers, he enjoyed his friendships, and he loved horsing around. We were not ready to say good-bye to him. We miss him!
There is a lot to know about Austin. What was the most important thing about him? Of course we mis his spirit and his smile, but know that he was a person of faith. That's what fueled him. What does that mean? For us, it means he was...
Redeemed - He knew his Savior, and he sought his identity in Christ
Served - He knew helping others was part of his walk
Intentional - He lived his life on purpose, and he was ready for the challenge
Discipler - He desired to help others grow closer to God
Relational - He engaged with others to encourage and enjoy each other
Learn more about Austin
Heart Austin's testimony in his own words: www.watermark.org/message/4799
Read this article: www.watermark.org/blog/austin-silvas-full-life
At Austin's Celebration of Life service, our pastor, Todd Wagner, put it another way. Here are 13 reasons you ought to live like (imitate) Austin: 13-reasons-you-ought-to-live-like-austin.html. See the full transcript of Austin's Celebration Service: www.watermark.org/message/4825
Special Dates!
September 15, 1999 - always thankful for Austin entering our world
June 15, 2017 - always missing Austin
Words from Friends and Family
As over six years have passed since Austin left us, here's what some of his family and friends have had to say recently about the impact he has had on their lives.
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I knew Austin personally, and led his small group at our church, for about 7-8 years. I had the unique privilege to spend weekly time with Austin (for about 9-months every year) and not being an immediate family member. I can say that without doubt, Austin believed in a BIG God and his life was a testament to that, and he continues to make an impact on my life and others. As Austin grew in his faith he displayed maturity well beyond his years. A couple of my favorite memories are: (1) We had an in-town retreat for the high schoolers at our church, and he was one of the boys that lead out in confessing sin. This was such a powerful moment in our group as it immediately helped others in the group feel comfortable confessing sin, and seeking healing from the Lord and the group. (2) After one of these retreats, a few months before he passed away in April 2017, we had a new kid attend the retreat with our group. Austin had never met this kid before, but right after the retreat Austin texted me to ask for this kid's phone number. He was making a very intentional effort to reach out and make this kid feel welcomed - that was just the person Austin was.
Austin continues to make an impact on me, and I can't help but think about Austin regularly when every December (since 2017), I've been able to run (most years) the Dallas Marathon or Half Marathon with Team Silva. Austin loved to run, and while we never shared that passion at the same time, I love that I get to participate in remembering Austin by doing this every year. #RunLikeAustin
-Andrew Savage
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It is without any difficulty that I can remember the shocking week in June six and a half years ago, how the family I'd known and loved my entire life lost their caring, goofy, and determined oldest son. Austin was always somewhere in the foundation of my growing up- he felt like a big brother by association and held an unspoken reverence in my life. Even when I could've been seen as the awkward teenage friend of his younger sister that I was, I have countless memories of him asking me thoughtful questions or making a point to hang out and include Sam and me. I remember feeling like an equal around him, which were my now-realized effects of his deep-rooted love for Christ that bled into all areas of his life. He was a leader in the organizations he was a part of, not because of the titles but because of his inclusivity and effortless kindness to his peers. He developed meaningful relationships with everyone around him and sought to point others to Jesus- attributes very rare in a high schooler.
It's because of similar memories to mine that Austin's passing was equally devastating yet inspired hope. In the months following June, our community had to acknowledge the brutal reality that another day on earth (even when you're young and seventeen) is not promised: a notion that should be terrifying but instead was met by the Silvas with the same promise that Austin believed- our true home is in Heaven. Throughout the long and confusing battle of losing a son and brother, this family has exemplified what it looks like to allow space for joy and hope to coexist with grief. I've witnessed parts of the struggle, heartbreak, and healing over these past years, and I can say with confidence that God has used this tragedy to reach not only unbelievers but to grow my faith as well. I've learned more of the character of Christ and what it means to live for Him through the Silvas honoring Austin and readily sharing the Gospel with anyone who comes in contact with their story. Although there are many unanswered questions on this side of Heaven, Austin lived in complete belief that the Lord would take care of him- and as we continue to remember his life, we should too!
– Camille Dries
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When I remember Austin, here is what I remember of him:
* Faithful, caring friend
* A smile that could light up a room
* A joy that was contagious
* A young man that through his faith knew his purpose
* Wicked smart and humble
* Loved his family
* Fun to be with
He was a joy. I’m incredibly grateful that we knew him, and we grieve with you that he is not here.
-Michele Howard
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Austin held deep and firm convictions. In high school, it is certainly not uncommon for a teenage boy to hold strong opinions, but his were rooted in the wisdom of scripture, which I know he consulted far more than I did at that age. If we differed in opinion (a regular occurrence), he seldom challenged me out of spite or unkindness but rather with grace, curiosity, and a jest derived from a deep respect. At 23, I can look back and see it still. Neither of us were perfect, and we laughed a lot about teenager things, but I remember his laugh clearly and it makes me smile. It was infectious. It always made me laugh harder. Can’t help but think it has everything to do with the deep joy he knew in life with Christ.
-Taber Roach
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I miss Austin. I’ll say the same thing I said after he passed away: there was no teenager who said “Hi, Mr. Breedlove!“ with more warmth or sincerity than Austin. That may seem like a strange thing to say, but it’s something I’ve always remembered about him with longing. So too do I miss his fun-loving spirit and remember some antics from when he and Jace were playing doubles. I grieve the relationship lost/suspended with Austin’s passing.
His life also encourages me that even a young person can have a meaningful, intimate relationship with the Lord. I feel like I watched him mature into that. His journal entry that day only confirms it.
I still have the program from his memorial service in my office at work, so that alone reminds me of him often, and I’m glad it does. Y’all are dear, inspirational friends to us, and I’m thankful God led our family to intersect with yours.
18LOVE,
- Scott Breedlove
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Austin was one of the most faithful, honest, and supportive friends I have known. I looked up to him in more ways than one but watching the ways he was consistent and involved in his friends lives impacted the way I lived my life after his passing. Austin was there for each and every person in his life in big ways. He would cheer on friends sports teams, coordinate plans to see friends/ family when he missed them, grab coffee when he knew a classmate needed it, and constantly put others before himself. His circle was large but he only surrounded himself with those that shared the same values as him. He had the best of friends and his passing, although tragic, showed me many blessings, including the friendship of Austin’s mutuals that I’m still friends with 6.5 years later. I didn’t just learn from Austin but also his close friends. They showed me healthy ways of grieving, how to pray in times of despair, and unconditional support. I miss Austin everyday. One of the best biggest blessings in my life are the people he brought into it and the memories of him we’re all able to share together.
- Claire Otto
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Words that come to mind as I reminisce about Austin are:
Faithful – committed to his faith and friends in his words and deeds both in private and in public
Funny – the lasting image of Austin in my mind that is not captured in a photo somewhere is the grin on his face as he rowed up to me (and ryan and ben) floating in the lake with that upside down jet ski waiting for his rescue in the kayak….his dry sense of humor that Sam and Charlie also possess was always a blessing to me. Praying for Austin’s legacy to continue at LHHS for many years.
-Rick Howard
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When I think about Austin, it is both with sadness and gladness. Sad because I miss him for myself, for y’all and for Jace. Glad because my memories of him are so dear and happy. And glad because I know he is alive with the Lord and that we’ll all be together for eternity. Austin exuded joy, faith and abundant life. He was a bright light among his peers and blessed with many gifts and virtues that he used to bless others. He is missed all the time and is not forgotten.
Love y’all so much,
- Julie Breedlove
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Hope in heartbreak. Austin and I had made plans for the summer leading up to our senior year in high school. We committed that we would complete a full marathon (along with Sam) and read through the book of Job. Not knowing the days ahead of us, we had several bonding moments as brothers. Austin did not seize to look out for me in my best interest. He reminded me to be mindful of my words and actions. He also demonstrated living a life full of purpose and passion. To this day, I do not always understand the will of God, certainly, I did not like June 15th. However, God does not make mistakes. The last living moment I had with Austin was refreshing in the faith. Just a few days before his surgery, we ran around White Rock Lake, he told me felt nervous about his wisdom teeth extraction. Yet, he decided to give that worry to God. And we both hugged it out sharing our appreciation for our brotherhood. One of the biggest lessons I took from Austin was to plan big, but invite God into the plan, so that when parts of the plan do not work in my favor, I would seek out divine interruption. For me, divine interruption is my faith. Holding on to the promises of God.
The last journal piece that Austin wrote was “The Lord Will Take Care of Me”. That remains true for all of us.
-Javar Duckett
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So glad y’all reached out there isn’t a week that goes by that I don’t pass the children’s surgery center by my school and remember those tough days we spent at Children’s Medical but also remember just how many people had so much love for Austin and all the stories we shared about him. When I think of Austin maybe the thing I admired most about him was how much he loved life, whether that was his spiritual life and walk with the Lord or his social life and relationships, he lived with so much energy and optimism whether we were in the middle of Algebra or the middle of the lunchroom together. He is the perfect example of always being genuinely himself, there was never a time where Austin Silva tried to be anything but himself and I will always love and miss watching him grow into the kind, vibrant, caring man full of love and faith that he was! I love y’all and am praying for you guys always your story and his story live on in so many of us every day!
– Ben Swanner
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My last vivid memory of Austin was at a junior high soccer game of Charlie’s. I still have the vivid memory of Austin and Sam both sitting together talking and laughing with a blanket around the both of them. I stopped to talk to both Sam and Austin. He always had such an aura of positivity. I enjoyed watching him play tennis. I will remember Austin for his kindness and his love for his family and friends and others around him. I am truly sad for the Silva family to lose Austin at such a young age. Suzanne, David, Sam and Charlie have all been such a huge inspiration to the Moran family on how they have remained so strong in their faith of Jesus Christ during such a tragic loss. Suzanne has mentored so many others who have had family members who have passed away. She has been a huge mentor for me in my life with the passing of my twin sister so very close to the passing of Austin. I will forever be grateful to the Silva family and am thankful for how much they do to keep Austin’s memory alive.
"The Lord Himself goes before you and will be with you; He will never leave you or forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged." Deuteronomy 31:8
- Kristen Moran
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I can't think of Austin without seeing his smile. It spread across his face and shone in his eyes ~ full of life and love! That smile was present from an early age and he shared it generously. It was contagious and infectious, and it marked how he lived. As a child, he was a friend to all he came in contact with, laughed easily at himself & with others, and explored all that life had to offer. As he grew into a young man, it become evident he deeply knew the Lord ~ the giver and source of life. And his smile reflected that knowledge. The smile that lit his eyes reflected the peace and purpose that guided his life. Others could see it. And just like when he was a child, he faithfully invited others into his joy.
-Pam Hoppers
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Austin was the first “young” person I knew that was intentionally pursuing Christ. At his memorial service, I heard about how Austin wrote in a journal often. Now I journal everyday and think it's a crucial part of my spiritual life—I can trace it all back to Austin. – Bo Richardson
Suz—just a note that Bo was 10 years old at Austin’s service (so young) and it had such a big impact on him.
We loved serving refugee families in the neighborhood with the Silvas and Austin. He was older than most of the “kid” volunteers and was so helpful, cheerful and great with all kids. I am sure he could have been doing plenty of other things than serving with younger kids and families but he was happy to play and help do anything. I remember seeing him at the soccer fields reffing games—always with that great smile. Even though you know some parents were not always great to him. We are so grateful for the chances we got to be with Austin and serve and worship and play. He was older than our kids so we feel especially grateful to have had that time with him when it wouldn’t have normally happened.
-The Richardson Family
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In spending more time thinking about Austin this past week or two, a variety of things stood out to me the most. The first was his genuine smile that came from his relationship with Christ. He had the ability to connect with anyone at any age. Not only was his smile welcoming, but his disposition was one of ease, acceptance and compassion that could only come from his relationship with the Lord. In elementary school he was mature in the way he treated others and childlike in the way he played and had fun with kids from all backgrounds. I witnessed this at soccer games, Good News Club and at your house. He had a way of putting kids/teens at ease with his ability to connect without fear or judgement, and putting adults at ease with his friendliness and the knowledge that he would definitely be a good role model for your child. :)
Something else that always struck me as unique was that I could tell he was confident in his gifts, talents and other strengths, but he did not seem to desire other people to know that he was better than them in any way. He was humble. Instead he seemed to meet other people where they were and accept them for who they were, which allowed them to be who God created them to be. He had the ability to lead by example and with words that did make others feel frustrated or less than. He was welcomed as a leader by others and did it so naturally. His disposition, personality and relationship with the Lord never waned in all of the years I knew him. It is obvious that God enabled Austin to be who he was and that His grace sustained him throughout his short life on earth. I too, wonder regularly where he would be now, what he would be doing, who he would be dating and where he would be serving. There's no doubt that he is carrying on his legacy in heaven and excitedly awaiting all of us who will spend eternity with him (especially his family) with no more pain and no more tears.
Will there ever be another Austin Silva on earth? No way, not even close.
-Tiffany Wilkins
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For the past 6.5yrs, 3 different offices, Austin’s program remains on his shelf for him to see each day. I think a lot about Austin in just the simplest terms of don’t stress and live life … He was such a “young” man (barely out of boy hood) with so much to offer that it makes me reflect and most of the time ”wish” he was still here, although I didn’t really know him … I often compare it to the fact that my mom lost two brothers (Michael 5, Tim 14) so I reflect on how my grandmother dealt with the loss within her life years later, plus Sam and Charlie in how they miss and deal with the passing of a brother … All in all I don’t get it but God didn’t give me a mind to understand his ways, just a faith to trust Him … I know Austin knows that truth now … Having his program on my shelf makes me look at him daily and wonder what could have been and that makes me smile … His pic also reminds me to always pray for the Silva’s and all of the individuals that didn’t know Austin … He was a very young game changer, and now he understands it all … I think all of his now daily heavenly walks are the epitome of what we are told in Micah 6:8 … I hope he has met Buck and or Bogee :)
- Christman Fifer
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Hi, my name is Samantha Silva, and I’m Austin’s little sister. Even though sometimes I really thought we should be twins. Today I want to share some of my thoughts after Austin’s passing. I never could have asked for a better big brother for Charlie or I. Like all of us, Austin was far from perfect and of course we drove each other crazy at times, but I know that he loved me, and I love him. I'm so happy for the past two years that he had to drive me around. I'm glad we got to train for the half marathon by running around the lake together in the months leading up to December, both with our headphones in except for the occasional comment on the nice sunrise while running. This semester he helped me figure out a few of the wrangler stunts because I could NOT figure out wraparound for the longest time. He also tried to help me with chemistry and math this year, but ended up being too smart for me to understand the majority of what he said. And I was so excited for wranglers and cross country with him this year. And it really sucks that none of that will happen.
and now Austin and I won't get to complete our previously decided deal that we will both bring our college friends home so that he can date my friends and I can date his. and I won't get to be best friends with his wife someday, and there won't be any more Taylor Swift car rides with him. no more comparing the greatness of all of Matthew McConaughey’s rom coms. no more debating who gets to drive the car. and it makes me so sad. I miss him, and I know I always will.
but I know that Austin trusted Christ, and I know that Christ is so worth it. I’m so glad we got to share our love of Christ. because now Austin gets to be WITH him. and I know Austin had a full life because he followed Jesus so well, he loved others, and I know he loved living life. as sad as I am for him that he won't get to experience the rest of life, I know that heaven is so much better than earth. and I know that my mom, dad, Charlie and I have a spot open at our dinner table for him, but I also know that Austin has four spots open for us. and I’m so glad that he is experiencing joy and peace that I don't completely have yet. and I can't wait to see Austin when I finally get to rejoice with my savior. Our savior who is good, and has a plan for our good and his glory. and right now I am so thankful that his organs get to go to people who have been hopefully awaiting something that will allow them to live longer. and if they don't know Jesus, I am praying that in his love and mercy, this will give them more time to find Christ-because life is only found in him. So Austin- thanks for being an annoying brother and a great friend. I’m so grateful that you know Jesus, and that allowed Jesus to get the glory in all of this. I know that this life will pass by in the blink of an eye, and right now I only get to see glimpses of Christ's glory. so I can't wait to come home whenever Jesus calls me home.
Thank you for being here and for being Austin’s friends, and for loving both him and our family so well.
-Samantha Silva, from Austin's Celebration of Life Service
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David Penuel’s updated blog
While Austin’s life appeared short, I believe that Austin was closer to living a full life in his 17 years than most who live into their 80’s or 90’s. I will always remember the following four ways Austin’s life was full.
1. Salvation
First, Austin’s life was filled with salvation. 1 John 1:9 says, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” Humans are prideful by nature. Many of us find it very hard to find the humility to admit that we don’t have it all together. By God’s grace, Austin was filled with the humility necessary to confess his sins. He openly acknowledged specific weaknesses like his desire to please others, his pride, and his selfish attitude. Many people live their lives in stubborn pride and the results are shallow and empty. But Austin’s life was filled with humility, honesty, and truth. As Austin came to grips with and confessed his sin, He found love and forgiveness in Jesus Christ. Trusting Christ for the forgiveness of his sins, Austin’s life was full of purity, redemption, restoration, and hope.
2. Service
Second, Austin’s life was filled with sacrificial service. Luke 9:23 says, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.” Austin served children faithfully at his church and - with extreme sacrifice and devotion - he served campers with special needs at Camp Barnabas. Austin was young, and he didn’t have Hollywood romance or experience marriage, having children, or grandchildren. And yet, his life was filled with more love than most because of the way he served others. Austin taught us that we don’t need to find “the one” in order to experience the full beauty of love. There are plenty of bad boyfriends, husbands, and dads out there who are filled with far less love than Austin was. As Austin sought to serve others in the name of Christ, he found himself filled with a Christ-like love marked by patience, kindness, humility, unselfishness, peace, joy, and hope.
3. Purpose
Third, Austin’s life was filled with purpose. Psalm 107:2 says, “Let the redeemed of the Lord tell their story.” How many people struggle through the decades of their lives searching for purpose? How many teenagers live their days dominated by fear of what other people think about them? Austin Silva knew who he was, and he was a man on a mission from God. Not many people get to stand up in front of hundreds of people and proclaim what God has done in their lives, but Austin did (listen to Austin's testimony here). Because of Jesus Christ, Austin’s life was filled with conviction, confidence, and a fearlessness to boldly share about the good news of God’s free gift of salvation.
4. Disciple-making
Finally, Austin’s life was filled with disciple-making. Matthew 28:19 says, “Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit”. Many of Austin’s closest friends said he was a spiritual leader in their lives. He didn’t have a big, loud, charismatic personality and he didn’t beat people over the head with the Bible, but he pointed others towards God with a gentle strength through his consistent example, his love for others, and his willingness to share truth. I’ll never forget that Javar Duckett devoted his life to Christ as a direct result of Austin’s influence. In May of 2017, Austin got the chance to baptize Javar as a public declaration of God’s work of salvation through Jesus Christ. How many people get to do something like that?! How many people get to lead a friend to faith in Christ and celebrate their baptism? Javar is just one example. Austin was young, but his life was full of fruit and a legacy of disciple-making that will continue to multiply.
John 10:10 says, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” What does it mean to live the full life that Jesus came to give us? Just look at the paragraphs above…Austin Silva’s life gives us the answer. While it appeared that Austin’s life was stolen, killed, and destroyed, we know better. God gave Austin a full life while he was on this earth and a full life for all eternity in Heaven.
- David Penuel
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Losing Austin is hard. We laughed, played hard, wrestled, talked a lot, worked alongside each other, etc. As a parent, I never want to lose sight of those things, but God had a greater purpose for him beyond my dreams for him. I must admit I don't understand it yet. God help me to live like Austin in these difficult days. Help me to live like you Jesus. The closer we get to Jesus, the closer we get to Austin and all the saints. As Stephen Curtis Chapman says, we're just on the long road home....
There is a lot to know about Austin. What was the most important thing about him? Of course we mis his spirit and his smile, but know that he was a person of faith. That's what fueled him. What does that mean? For us, it means he was...
Redeemed - He knew his Savior, and he sought his identity in Christ
Served - He knew helping others was part of his walk
Intentional - He lived his life on purpose, and he was ready for the challenge
Discipler - He desired to help others grow closer to God
Relational - He engaged with others to encourage and enjoy each other
Learn more about Austin
Heart Austin's testimony in his own words: www.watermark.org/message/4799
Read this article: www.watermark.org/blog/austin-silvas-full-life
At Austin's Celebration of Life service, our pastor, Todd Wagner, put it another way. Here are 13 reasons you ought to live like (imitate) Austin: 13-reasons-you-ought-to-live-like-austin.html. See the full transcript of Austin's Celebration Service: www.watermark.org/message/4825
Special Dates!
September 15, 1999 - always thankful for Austin entering our world
June 15, 2017 - always missing Austin
Words from Friends and Family
As over six years have passed since Austin left us, here's what some of his family and friends have had to say recently about the impact he has had on their lives.
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I knew Austin personally, and led his small group at our church, for about 7-8 years. I had the unique privilege to spend weekly time with Austin (for about 9-months every year) and not being an immediate family member. I can say that without doubt, Austin believed in a BIG God and his life was a testament to that, and he continues to make an impact on my life and others. As Austin grew in his faith he displayed maturity well beyond his years. A couple of my favorite memories are: (1) We had an in-town retreat for the high schoolers at our church, and he was one of the boys that lead out in confessing sin. This was such a powerful moment in our group as it immediately helped others in the group feel comfortable confessing sin, and seeking healing from the Lord and the group. (2) After one of these retreats, a few months before he passed away in April 2017, we had a new kid attend the retreat with our group. Austin had never met this kid before, but right after the retreat Austin texted me to ask for this kid's phone number. He was making a very intentional effort to reach out and make this kid feel welcomed - that was just the person Austin was.
Austin continues to make an impact on me, and I can't help but think about Austin regularly when every December (since 2017), I've been able to run (most years) the Dallas Marathon or Half Marathon with Team Silva. Austin loved to run, and while we never shared that passion at the same time, I love that I get to participate in remembering Austin by doing this every year. #RunLikeAustin
-Andrew Savage
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It is without any difficulty that I can remember the shocking week in June six and a half years ago, how the family I'd known and loved my entire life lost their caring, goofy, and determined oldest son. Austin was always somewhere in the foundation of my growing up- he felt like a big brother by association and held an unspoken reverence in my life. Even when I could've been seen as the awkward teenage friend of his younger sister that I was, I have countless memories of him asking me thoughtful questions or making a point to hang out and include Sam and me. I remember feeling like an equal around him, which were my now-realized effects of his deep-rooted love for Christ that bled into all areas of his life. He was a leader in the organizations he was a part of, not because of the titles but because of his inclusivity and effortless kindness to his peers. He developed meaningful relationships with everyone around him and sought to point others to Jesus- attributes very rare in a high schooler.
It's because of similar memories to mine that Austin's passing was equally devastating yet inspired hope. In the months following June, our community had to acknowledge the brutal reality that another day on earth (even when you're young and seventeen) is not promised: a notion that should be terrifying but instead was met by the Silvas with the same promise that Austin believed- our true home is in Heaven. Throughout the long and confusing battle of losing a son and brother, this family has exemplified what it looks like to allow space for joy and hope to coexist with grief. I've witnessed parts of the struggle, heartbreak, and healing over these past years, and I can say with confidence that God has used this tragedy to reach not only unbelievers but to grow my faith as well. I've learned more of the character of Christ and what it means to live for Him through the Silvas honoring Austin and readily sharing the Gospel with anyone who comes in contact with their story. Although there are many unanswered questions on this side of Heaven, Austin lived in complete belief that the Lord would take care of him- and as we continue to remember his life, we should too!
– Camille Dries
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When I remember Austin, here is what I remember of him:
* Faithful, caring friend
* A smile that could light up a room
* A joy that was contagious
* A young man that through his faith knew his purpose
* Wicked smart and humble
* Loved his family
* Fun to be with
He was a joy. I’m incredibly grateful that we knew him, and we grieve with you that he is not here.
-Michele Howard
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Austin held deep and firm convictions. In high school, it is certainly not uncommon for a teenage boy to hold strong opinions, but his were rooted in the wisdom of scripture, which I know he consulted far more than I did at that age. If we differed in opinion (a regular occurrence), he seldom challenged me out of spite or unkindness but rather with grace, curiosity, and a jest derived from a deep respect. At 23, I can look back and see it still. Neither of us were perfect, and we laughed a lot about teenager things, but I remember his laugh clearly and it makes me smile. It was infectious. It always made me laugh harder. Can’t help but think it has everything to do with the deep joy he knew in life with Christ.
-Taber Roach
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I miss Austin. I’ll say the same thing I said after he passed away: there was no teenager who said “Hi, Mr. Breedlove!“ with more warmth or sincerity than Austin. That may seem like a strange thing to say, but it’s something I’ve always remembered about him with longing. So too do I miss his fun-loving spirit and remember some antics from when he and Jace were playing doubles. I grieve the relationship lost/suspended with Austin’s passing.
His life also encourages me that even a young person can have a meaningful, intimate relationship with the Lord. I feel like I watched him mature into that. His journal entry that day only confirms it.
I still have the program from his memorial service in my office at work, so that alone reminds me of him often, and I’m glad it does. Y’all are dear, inspirational friends to us, and I’m thankful God led our family to intersect with yours.
18LOVE,
- Scott Breedlove
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Austin was one of the most faithful, honest, and supportive friends I have known. I looked up to him in more ways than one but watching the ways he was consistent and involved in his friends lives impacted the way I lived my life after his passing. Austin was there for each and every person in his life in big ways. He would cheer on friends sports teams, coordinate plans to see friends/ family when he missed them, grab coffee when he knew a classmate needed it, and constantly put others before himself. His circle was large but he only surrounded himself with those that shared the same values as him. He had the best of friends and his passing, although tragic, showed me many blessings, including the friendship of Austin’s mutuals that I’m still friends with 6.5 years later. I didn’t just learn from Austin but also his close friends. They showed me healthy ways of grieving, how to pray in times of despair, and unconditional support. I miss Austin everyday. One of the best biggest blessings in my life are the people he brought into it and the memories of him we’re all able to share together.
- Claire Otto
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Words that come to mind as I reminisce about Austin are:
Faithful – committed to his faith and friends in his words and deeds both in private and in public
Funny – the lasting image of Austin in my mind that is not captured in a photo somewhere is the grin on his face as he rowed up to me (and ryan and ben) floating in the lake with that upside down jet ski waiting for his rescue in the kayak….his dry sense of humor that Sam and Charlie also possess was always a blessing to me. Praying for Austin’s legacy to continue at LHHS for many years.
-Rick Howard
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When I think about Austin, it is both with sadness and gladness. Sad because I miss him for myself, for y’all and for Jace. Glad because my memories of him are so dear and happy. And glad because I know he is alive with the Lord and that we’ll all be together for eternity. Austin exuded joy, faith and abundant life. He was a bright light among his peers and blessed with many gifts and virtues that he used to bless others. He is missed all the time and is not forgotten.
Love y’all so much,
- Julie Breedlove
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Hope in heartbreak. Austin and I had made plans for the summer leading up to our senior year in high school. We committed that we would complete a full marathon (along with Sam) and read through the book of Job. Not knowing the days ahead of us, we had several bonding moments as brothers. Austin did not seize to look out for me in my best interest. He reminded me to be mindful of my words and actions. He also demonstrated living a life full of purpose and passion. To this day, I do not always understand the will of God, certainly, I did not like June 15th. However, God does not make mistakes. The last living moment I had with Austin was refreshing in the faith. Just a few days before his surgery, we ran around White Rock Lake, he told me felt nervous about his wisdom teeth extraction. Yet, he decided to give that worry to God. And we both hugged it out sharing our appreciation for our brotherhood. One of the biggest lessons I took from Austin was to plan big, but invite God into the plan, so that when parts of the plan do not work in my favor, I would seek out divine interruption. For me, divine interruption is my faith. Holding on to the promises of God.
The last journal piece that Austin wrote was “The Lord Will Take Care of Me”. That remains true for all of us.
-Javar Duckett
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So glad y’all reached out there isn’t a week that goes by that I don’t pass the children’s surgery center by my school and remember those tough days we spent at Children’s Medical but also remember just how many people had so much love for Austin and all the stories we shared about him. When I think of Austin maybe the thing I admired most about him was how much he loved life, whether that was his spiritual life and walk with the Lord or his social life and relationships, he lived with so much energy and optimism whether we were in the middle of Algebra or the middle of the lunchroom together. He is the perfect example of always being genuinely himself, there was never a time where Austin Silva tried to be anything but himself and I will always love and miss watching him grow into the kind, vibrant, caring man full of love and faith that he was! I love y’all and am praying for you guys always your story and his story live on in so many of us every day!
– Ben Swanner
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My last vivid memory of Austin was at a junior high soccer game of Charlie’s. I still have the vivid memory of Austin and Sam both sitting together talking and laughing with a blanket around the both of them. I stopped to talk to both Sam and Austin. He always had such an aura of positivity. I enjoyed watching him play tennis. I will remember Austin for his kindness and his love for his family and friends and others around him. I am truly sad for the Silva family to lose Austin at such a young age. Suzanne, David, Sam and Charlie have all been such a huge inspiration to the Moran family on how they have remained so strong in their faith of Jesus Christ during such a tragic loss. Suzanne has mentored so many others who have had family members who have passed away. She has been a huge mentor for me in my life with the passing of my twin sister so very close to the passing of Austin. I will forever be grateful to the Silva family and am thankful for how much they do to keep Austin’s memory alive.
"The Lord Himself goes before you and will be with you; He will never leave you or forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged." Deuteronomy 31:8
- Kristen Moran
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I can't think of Austin without seeing his smile. It spread across his face and shone in his eyes ~ full of life and love! That smile was present from an early age and he shared it generously. It was contagious and infectious, and it marked how he lived. As a child, he was a friend to all he came in contact with, laughed easily at himself & with others, and explored all that life had to offer. As he grew into a young man, it become evident he deeply knew the Lord ~ the giver and source of life. And his smile reflected that knowledge. The smile that lit his eyes reflected the peace and purpose that guided his life. Others could see it. And just like when he was a child, he faithfully invited others into his joy.
-Pam Hoppers
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Austin was the first “young” person I knew that was intentionally pursuing Christ. At his memorial service, I heard about how Austin wrote in a journal often. Now I journal everyday and think it's a crucial part of my spiritual life—I can trace it all back to Austin. – Bo Richardson
Suz—just a note that Bo was 10 years old at Austin’s service (so young) and it had such a big impact on him.
We loved serving refugee families in the neighborhood with the Silvas and Austin. He was older than most of the “kid” volunteers and was so helpful, cheerful and great with all kids. I am sure he could have been doing plenty of other things than serving with younger kids and families but he was happy to play and help do anything. I remember seeing him at the soccer fields reffing games—always with that great smile. Even though you know some parents were not always great to him. We are so grateful for the chances we got to be with Austin and serve and worship and play. He was older than our kids so we feel especially grateful to have had that time with him when it wouldn’t have normally happened.
-The Richardson Family
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In spending more time thinking about Austin this past week or two, a variety of things stood out to me the most. The first was his genuine smile that came from his relationship with Christ. He had the ability to connect with anyone at any age. Not only was his smile welcoming, but his disposition was one of ease, acceptance and compassion that could only come from his relationship with the Lord. In elementary school he was mature in the way he treated others and childlike in the way he played and had fun with kids from all backgrounds. I witnessed this at soccer games, Good News Club and at your house. He had a way of putting kids/teens at ease with his ability to connect without fear or judgement, and putting adults at ease with his friendliness and the knowledge that he would definitely be a good role model for your child. :)
Something else that always struck me as unique was that I could tell he was confident in his gifts, talents and other strengths, but he did not seem to desire other people to know that he was better than them in any way. He was humble. Instead he seemed to meet other people where they were and accept them for who they were, which allowed them to be who God created them to be. He had the ability to lead by example and with words that did make others feel frustrated or less than. He was welcomed as a leader by others and did it so naturally. His disposition, personality and relationship with the Lord never waned in all of the years I knew him. It is obvious that God enabled Austin to be who he was and that His grace sustained him throughout his short life on earth. I too, wonder regularly where he would be now, what he would be doing, who he would be dating and where he would be serving. There's no doubt that he is carrying on his legacy in heaven and excitedly awaiting all of us who will spend eternity with him (especially his family) with no more pain and no more tears.
Will there ever be another Austin Silva on earth? No way, not even close.
-Tiffany Wilkins
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For the past 6.5yrs, 3 different offices, Austin’s program remains on his shelf for him to see each day. I think a lot about Austin in just the simplest terms of don’t stress and live life … He was such a “young” man (barely out of boy hood) with so much to offer that it makes me reflect and most of the time ”wish” he was still here, although I didn’t really know him … I often compare it to the fact that my mom lost two brothers (Michael 5, Tim 14) so I reflect on how my grandmother dealt with the loss within her life years later, plus Sam and Charlie in how they miss and deal with the passing of a brother … All in all I don’t get it but God didn’t give me a mind to understand his ways, just a faith to trust Him … I know Austin knows that truth now … Having his program on my shelf makes me look at him daily and wonder what could have been and that makes me smile … His pic also reminds me to always pray for the Silva’s and all of the individuals that didn’t know Austin … He was a very young game changer, and now he understands it all … I think all of his now daily heavenly walks are the epitome of what we are told in Micah 6:8 … I hope he has met Buck and or Bogee :)
- Christman Fifer
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Hi, my name is Samantha Silva, and I’m Austin’s little sister. Even though sometimes I really thought we should be twins. Today I want to share some of my thoughts after Austin’s passing. I never could have asked for a better big brother for Charlie or I. Like all of us, Austin was far from perfect and of course we drove each other crazy at times, but I know that he loved me, and I love him. I'm so happy for the past two years that he had to drive me around. I'm glad we got to train for the half marathon by running around the lake together in the months leading up to December, both with our headphones in except for the occasional comment on the nice sunrise while running. This semester he helped me figure out a few of the wrangler stunts because I could NOT figure out wraparound for the longest time. He also tried to help me with chemistry and math this year, but ended up being too smart for me to understand the majority of what he said. And I was so excited for wranglers and cross country with him this year. And it really sucks that none of that will happen.
and now Austin and I won't get to complete our previously decided deal that we will both bring our college friends home so that he can date my friends and I can date his. and I won't get to be best friends with his wife someday, and there won't be any more Taylor Swift car rides with him. no more comparing the greatness of all of Matthew McConaughey’s rom coms. no more debating who gets to drive the car. and it makes me so sad. I miss him, and I know I always will.
but I know that Austin trusted Christ, and I know that Christ is so worth it. I’m so glad we got to share our love of Christ. because now Austin gets to be WITH him. and I know Austin had a full life because he followed Jesus so well, he loved others, and I know he loved living life. as sad as I am for him that he won't get to experience the rest of life, I know that heaven is so much better than earth. and I know that my mom, dad, Charlie and I have a spot open at our dinner table for him, but I also know that Austin has four spots open for us. and I’m so glad that he is experiencing joy and peace that I don't completely have yet. and I can't wait to see Austin when I finally get to rejoice with my savior. Our savior who is good, and has a plan for our good and his glory. and right now I am so thankful that his organs get to go to people who have been hopefully awaiting something that will allow them to live longer. and if they don't know Jesus, I am praying that in his love and mercy, this will give them more time to find Christ-because life is only found in him. So Austin- thanks for being an annoying brother and a great friend. I’m so grateful that you know Jesus, and that allowed Jesus to get the glory in all of this. I know that this life will pass by in the blink of an eye, and right now I only get to see glimpses of Christ's glory. so I can't wait to come home whenever Jesus calls me home.
Thank you for being here and for being Austin’s friends, and for loving both him and our family so well.
-Samantha Silva, from Austin's Celebration of Life Service
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David Penuel’s updated blog
While Austin’s life appeared short, I believe that Austin was closer to living a full life in his 17 years than most who live into their 80’s or 90’s. I will always remember the following four ways Austin’s life was full.
1. Salvation
First, Austin’s life was filled with salvation. 1 John 1:9 says, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” Humans are prideful by nature. Many of us find it very hard to find the humility to admit that we don’t have it all together. By God’s grace, Austin was filled with the humility necessary to confess his sins. He openly acknowledged specific weaknesses like his desire to please others, his pride, and his selfish attitude. Many people live their lives in stubborn pride and the results are shallow and empty. But Austin’s life was filled with humility, honesty, and truth. As Austin came to grips with and confessed his sin, He found love and forgiveness in Jesus Christ. Trusting Christ for the forgiveness of his sins, Austin’s life was full of purity, redemption, restoration, and hope.
2. Service
Second, Austin’s life was filled with sacrificial service. Luke 9:23 says, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.” Austin served children faithfully at his church and - with extreme sacrifice and devotion - he served campers with special needs at Camp Barnabas. Austin was young, and he didn’t have Hollywood romance or experience marriage, having children, or grandchildren. And yet, his life was filled with more love than most because of the way he served others. Austin taught us that we don’t need to find “the one” in order to experience the full beauty of love. There are plenty of bad boyfriends, husbands, and dads out there who are filled with far less love than Austin was. As Austin sought to serve others in the name of Christ, he found himself filled with a Christ-like love marked by patience, kindness, humility, unselfishness, peace, joy, and hope.
3. Purpose
Third, Austin’s life was filled with purpose. Psalm 107:2 says, “Let the redeemed of the Lord tell their story.” How many people struggle through the decades of their lives searching for purpose? How many teenagers live their days dominated by fear of what other people think about them? Austin Silva knew who he was, and he was a man on a mission from God. Not many people get to stand up in front of hundreds of people and proclaim what God has done in their lives, but Austin did (listen to Austin's testimony here). Because of Jesus Christ, Austin’s life was filled with conviction, confidence, and a fearlessness to boldly share about the good news of God’s free gift of salvation.
4. Disciple-making
Finally, Austin’s life was filled with disciple-making. Matthew 28:19 says, “Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit”. Many of Austin’s closest friends said he was a spiritual leader in their lives. He didn’t have a big, loud, charismatic personality and he didn’t beat people over the head with the Bible, but he pointed others towards God with a gentle strength through his consistent example, his love for others, and his willingness to share truth. I’ll never forget that Javar Duckett devoted his life to Christ as a direct result of Austin’s influence. In May of 2017, Austin got the chance to baptize Javar as a public declaration of God’s work of salvation through Jesus Christ. How many people get to do something like that?! How many people get to lead a friend to faith in Christ and celebrate their baptism? Javar is just one example. Austin was young, but his life was full of fruit and a legacy of disciple-making that will continue to multiply.
John 10:10 says, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” What does it mean to live the full life that Jesus came to give us? Just look at the paragraphs above…Austin Silva’s life gives us the answer. While it appeared that Austin’s life was stolen, killed, and destroyed, we know better. God gave Austin a full life while he was on this earth and a full life for all eternity in Heaven.
- David Penuel
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Losing Austin is hard. We laughed, played hard, wrestled, talked a lot, worked alongside each other, etc. As a parent, I never want to lose sight of those things, but God had a greater purpose for him beyond my dreams for him. I must admit I don't understand it yet. God help me to live like Austin in these difficult days. Help me to live like you Jesus. The closer we get to Jesus, the closer we get to Austin and all the saints. As Stephen Curtis Chapman says, we're just on the long road home....
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